this past week has been… rough. I don’t know if I’m just taking my therapist’s retirement harder than I thought I was or if PSAT bootcamp at work is just ruining my whole vibe, but I’ve dissociated more in the past week than I have all year so far—and I wasn’t stellar on my goals, either.
write something every day (except Shabbat). this was, for the first time this year, a total fail this past week. I wrote what was essential for grad school because I absolutely had to—but there were way too many days where I went, “I could write right now, but I could also just play this new The Sims 4 game pack…” and that just was not a productive approach. I’m hoping to try Camp NaNoWriMo (yet again, lol) next month just to see if being surrounded by other people who are excited and writing will get me, well, writing.
I’ve also gone back to the idea of trying to establish a routine. I really think part of the issue is also that I do so many other things sitting at that spot on my computer, so my ADHD brain is struggling to conceptualize writing when we don’t have to as a task we do there—but sitting literally anywhere else would give me issues breathing (due to the cat being all over every other surface) or just completely isolate me from everyone else in the house. So I think I might compromise by getting an old netbook back into shape and using that to be my writing computer? If I keep it plugged in near my other computer, it might be easy enough to switch between the two and focus on writing for a little bit.
be better about money. this hasn’t been stellar this whole month, to be honest—I made the grave mistake of being too excited for my tax refund and, since it has yet to arrive, I am struggling. I have to spend this weekend getting caught up on my finances and setting a plan for next month, or my 30th birthday plans are not going to be the only thing that I have to drop next month. on a bright side, I have remained strong on all my canceled subscriptions!
self-validate more. this was exceedingly difficult this week because I did so poorly on the other two resolutions and I have, in general, been in a really weird emotional place lately. however, despite some negative self-talk rearing its head this week, I’ve managed to not berate myself or go into a self-loathing spiral—and I’ll take that win, damn it.
until the next time, in which I will be discussing my issues with my nemesis, the laundry!